block party!

My husband and I, along with my brother and sister-in-law who live downstairs, are trying to be more intentional about reaching out to our community. We believe God placed us in our neighborhood for a reason, and we are doing our best to seek out His mission for us in our town. Of course, the first step in embracing our community is to get to know our immediate neighbors. Having lived here about 3 years now, we are already friendly with some of our next door neighbors. Yet there were still several homes on our street that we didn't know much about -- who lives there? What are their names? What do they do? Do we have anything in common aside from our address? We wanted a friendly way to meet more of our neighbors and get to know them better.

We decided to host a block party! A few weeks ago, we went door to door handing out invitations:

YOU'RE INVITED TO A 

BACKYARD BARBECUE BLOCK PARTY!

Sunday, July 28 from 5:30-8:00 P.M.

Come to meet & hang out with your neighbors!

Can't come the whole time? That's totally fine!

Feel free to stop in! Bring a lawn chair if you can.

Hope to see you there!

Just by knocking on a few doors, we were able to meet some of the neighbors we didn't know. Though not everyone answered the door, we were glad to see that the people we spoke to seemed receptive to the idea of a block party. We left invitations in mail boxes for those who weren't home. 

Then it was time to prepare for the party! It was hard to judge how many people would come. I'll admit that there were moments when we wondered if it would just be the 4 of us eating a burger in the backyard! But we went to BJ's and stocked up on food in hopes that would not be the case! 

On the day of the party, we had no idea what to expect. Even the weather was up in the air! Hourly forecasts changed by the minute. We debated all day long whether or not to postpone to a rain date. But as we stood in the driveway debating what to do, our neighbors remained hopeful and expressed excitement for the party -- how could we not go for it despite gray skies? The sun peeked out at 3 PM so we began the preparations. So many people (neighbors, family, & friends) wanted to pitch in to make the barbecue a success:

• Mom baked chocolate chip cookie bars
• Grandma made fudge brownies
• Leslie lent us a party tent
• Pete carved a watermelon fruit basket
• Arlene provided a table, cooler, and pound cakes
• John & Diane made pasta salad
• Lauren & Evan brought cookies
• Dave & Marco came with wine
• While we were at church that morning, Edgar even scraped and repainted our side of his fence to make sure our backyard looked its best for the party.

We got everything set up and looking great by 5 PM and told our neighbors to head on over to beat the weather! 

But of course, as soon as all of our guests arrived (20 of us all together!), the clouds gave way. It rained ... hard. We huddled under the tent and opened the garage for protection, hoping it would be a passing shower. After about 10 minutes, the rain was coming down even harder, so we told everyone to grab something and we headed inside. Though it was a bummer to spend the rest of our party indoors, it still seemed that everyone had a great time enjoying food and getting to know one another. Our neighbors even suggested making the block party an annual event!

I went to bed so happy that night. Despite the rain and change of plans, our first block party exceeded my expectations. It was a lot of fun to bring our neighbors together and made me excited to think about other ways to reach out to and spend time with our new friends.

family vacation at the lake

If a picture's worth a thousand words, then I'm just going to let all of these pictures tell the story of our fun and relaxing family vacation at the lake last week! We are already booked to go again next summer!

a.j.e. weekend

What better way to spend a weekend than with two great friends? Our time together over the last few years has been limited ... so many times when we were together, we were crafting for a.j.e.less designs (which we love!) ... but it's also nice to have "down time" together too. Especially when the money we've worked hard for by crafting can fund our vacation time together!

We spent 2 nights on Long Island -- shopping at the outlets, wine tasting, enjoying delicious food and great views! Of course, there was plenty of girl talk and laughs too. Can't believe we've been friends for 12 years already! At times, we lived just minutes apart. But for the past 8 years, at least one of us has been in a different state. Though we kept in touch despite the long distance between us, you can just imagine how glad I am to have them both in NJ again. Hoping this is just the beginning of more and more time together! 

one step at a time

Now that it's summer, I finally have some spare time to tell you about a house project we took on a couple months ago. :)

As my husband often says, there's always something you could be working on when you are a home owner. Since that is most certainly true, especially for our very old home (our list is endless), we have to prioritize what we want to accomplish.

As soon as we moved in 3 years  ago, we knew the huge bush out front had to go. It was no where near attractive, and it made backing out of the driveway quite difficult because we couldn't easily see if someone was walking by on the sidewalk. So, this spring, with help from our downstairs neighbors, we decided to remove the bush and replace it with some shrubbery that was more appealing (and low to the ground).

The boys figured ripping out this giant bush would be a tough job, but nothing a truck with a chain couldn't handle. Boy, were they wrong. They spent most of a Saturday just trying to get the bush (and its massive root system) out of our front yard. We had hoped to be on our way to Home Depot picking out new plants after lunch, but this bush wouldn't have it. My brother and husband tried tool after tool, and strategy after strategy, but nothing would tackle this disaster. They eventually resorted to hacking at the underground stem with an ax in hopes that its mutilation would prevent it from growing back. (Hopefully it will at least take many, many years before we see it peek above the ground again!) After filling in the hole with dirt, we were finally off to buy something new around 3:30 in the afternoon.

This is where us girls came into the picture. It was fun to choose which plants we liked best, and imagine what they may look like years from now in front of our house. A couple hours later, the plants were in the ground, mulch was laid, and this was the finished product!

So much better, right?! This picture was taken just a few days after planting back in May, and it is amazing to see how the plants have already grown since then. I love taking steps like this one that make our house more of a home.

30 years of love

On June 3rd, my parents celebrated their 3oth wedding anniversary. It was a joy to celebrate their love by going out as a family for a special dinner at The Manor last week. Their Christ-centered marriage is an example for all of their children. I hope and pray that my husband and I can continue my parents' legacy of loving God and loving each other more and more with each passing year. What a blessing to have parents (on both sides of the family) who love each other deeply, even after many years of marriage!

just another reason why I love him

He wouldn't want me to write this, but I can't help it.

My husband had a super-busy work day,

rushed home so he could run errands for his Memorial Day weekend camping trip with a friend,

has dinner plans with myself and another couple,

but still found time to dig out an old window unit from our attic and lug it next door for our neighbors, who told us over the fence on this 90 degree day that their home feels like an oven because their air conditioners died at the end of the season last year and they can't currently afford to buy new ones.

What a guy.

He is my inspiration to reach out to our neighborhood!

team teaching

Every year, teachers at my school are professionally evaluated in one of three ways -- formal evaluation by our principal, self-evaluation, or parent-evaluation. This year, I was up for evaluating myself. Overall, this was a difficult task, though it was easy to answer question #1, which was "What do you love most about your job?"

There are many things I love about being a teacher -- seeing how students grow throughout the school year, the ability to be creative, having fun while learning, etc. -- but I also love teaching at my school because of WHO I work with.

I have been SO blessed to have K as my grade-level partner. Second grade would definitely NOT be the same without her, and I have learned so much from her. Though our gifts and teaching styles may be different, we make such a great team! K is one to see the "big picture." While I can be creative, her ideas are "out of the box." She is a visionary, eager to try new things and take risks. She is a positive thinker, always assuming the best. 

I, on the other hand, can be fearful of change, and worry how change will affect the routines and procedures I've worked hard to establish in my classroom. I thrive on structure, am very organized, and good at thinking through the details of how to accomplish something in an orderly way.

You might think our two personalities would clash, but just the opposite is true! When K comes up with an ingenius idea, she tells me (before she forgets!). Then the two of us brainstorm together about how to turn the idea into a plan. She pushes me toward new and exciting challenges, and I help her to accomplish these goals step-by-step.

One of K's more recent "out-of-the-box" ideas was team teaching, meaning that each of us should teach the subject areas that we are most gifted in and passionate about to ALL second grade students. K is definitely a math-mind, while I've always preferred the language arts (can you tell? I write novels on this blog!). Team-teaching would mean that we could each focus on teaching fewer subject areas, and teach them really well. It would also mean that our classes would switch rooms for 90 minutes each day so that I could teach reading and writing to her students, and she could teach math and Bible to mine. K proposed that we try it out for a few weeks from now to the end of the school year. We sat down with our principal to talk through all the details and get her permission, wrote a letter home to parents to explain this new adventure, and now ... we've been team teaching for 2 days and everyone involved seems to be enjoying it! It is exciting to change things up at this point in the school year and keep school "fresh" and fun. Though the concept of team-teaching may simply be a 6 week trial, we will enjoy it while it lasts!

I must admit that the first time K mentioned team-teaching to me, it caught me by surprise. It seemed overwhelming to completely change our schedules and "mix things up." But now I am so glad that we did! I'm so thankful to work with K, who challenges me on a daily basis to be spontaneous and try new things. I have become more laid-back and flexible as a teacher, I think in large part due to working with K. Though we probably won't teach second grade side-by-side forever, it's been a great way to start my career. I can't imagine teaching with anyone else!